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October 24, 2001 |
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Column "Retribution"
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Column By: Jana Adams The Jackson Herald October 24, 2001 Artwork of survivors, memorial to loved onesThe clothesline stretched across the front lawn of the district attorney's office in Jefferson on Friday was decorated with T-shirts of different sizes and colors and with messages of hope, sorrow and love. Photographs, handprints, drawings and words of encouragement and remembrance patterned the shirt fronts. They created an art gallery of sorts portraying the survival of some domestic abuse sufferers and the memories of families who have lost loved ones to domestic violence. October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. As part of a campaign to make the public aware, Peace Place, a shelter for women and children, has been sponsoring the T-shirt clothesline and a candlelight vigil in Jackson, Banks and Barrow counties. Peace Place board member Jean Bauerband led me from T-shirt to T-shirt Friday morning and also pointed out a display of facts and figures and children's artwork showing their perceptions of domestic violence - stick figures menacing with big fists, knives, guns, looming over other figures, for example. I read the T-shirts, one by one. A tiny gray one with teardrops, "I miss my Daddy." Another, bright red, dotted with messages and a wedding picture of a couple inside a broken apart heart: "I'm a survivor...You can get out...For better or worse, til death do you part does not mean you have to let him kill you or permanently injure you." And as a testament to a lost one, "He loved her to death...literally. May you rest in peace now." "These T-shirts are really telling," Bauerband commented. "(Domestic violence) used to be swept under the rug. It wasn't talked about. You can shrug it off, say you don't know someone, but I bet you do." The facts are there. The statistics are there. It happens all the time, over and over. According to Peace Place "Did you know?" information, every nine seconds another woman is battered in the United States. Domestic violence is the leading cause of emergency room visits for women, more than muggings, rapes and car wrecks combined, and 42 percent of all female murder victims are slain by a husband or boyfriend. In Jackson County alone, there are some 200 domestic violence calls made to 911 each month. Just take a look at the public safety pages, where we often have a separate story or category for domestic disputes because there are so many of them... "battery at a South Jackson residence"... "her ex-boyfriend stopped and grabbed her from behind and punched her"... "her boyfriend slapped her when she went to his residence" .... "her husband struck her in the face." Sadly, these are common instances in the police and sheriff department reports. And these are the instances of physical abuse that are reported. There's also emotional, mental and sexual abuse. How many instances go unreported? Peace Place offers shelter for those in need and is also organizing support groups in Winder and Jefferson for children and women who are victims of domestic violence. Child care is available in Jefferson. For more information on the shelter's free services, call (770) 307-3633. The shelter's 24-hour crisis line is (770) 586-0927. "The crisis line is manned 24 hours a day, always," Bauerband said. Jana Adams is features editor of The Jackson Herald. |
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